Adventures, Random Thoughts, and A Little Zen

Adventures, Random Thoughts, and A Little Zen
Boneyard Beach, Bull Island, Cape Romain National Wildlife Refuge, South Carolina

Wednesday, December 4, 2013

I'm Grateful For It All


I use to over hear Miki’s conversations with her mom each weekend, as they would bring each other up to date on the goings on of each others lives from the previous week and she would always sign off…”Love you bunches.”  I’ll miss that call that only a mother and daughter can have, but the sign off will echo in our home for a while. 
I’ll miss her falling asleep on the way to the grocery store.
I’ll miss her sheepishly asking Saturday night before going to sleep, if we will have our regular Sunday morning blueberry pancakes.
I’ll miss her walking the dogs religiously, cause now I will have to!
I’ll miss her spitting, after rinsing her mouth, after brushing her teeth…the girl could not spit.
I’ll miss her apple pies.
I’ll miss her doing what she does best…talk.
I’ll miss holding her in the shower as the hot water washed over us.
I’ll miss her next effort toward exercising or eating better.
I’ll miss her recycling efforts.
I’ll miss the love she freely gave to me.
I’ll miss projects she’d come up with that “would only take 5 minutes!”
I’ll miss her endless attempts to get me organized.
I'll miss her kiss.
I’ll miss her giving me my haircut.
I’ll miss the way she made people feel.
I’ll miss her sink into the couch with a hot drink and a book.
I’ll miss following her up a mountain trail…watching her butt!
I’ll miss her devotion to her friends.
I’ll miss her soft skin.
I’ll miss her bad jokes.
I’ll miss her strength and determination.
I’ll miss her baldhead.
I'll miss her gratitude toward life.
I’ll miss looks only she could give.
I’ll miss her smile.
I’ll miss changing the sheets on the bed with her.
I’ll miss her sitting in her tree house.
I’ll miss the feeling of her hugs.
I’ll miss her little hand in mine.
I’ll miss everything about her, even when she was right!
I’ll miss her.



My Zen from The Heart:

- Wednesday - December 4th, 2013 - 10:35 pm -
Miki passed as gracefully as she lived.  Her next adventure has begun.

P.S.  There will be a celebration/memorial service for Miki
December 21st 
1:00 pm
Blue Springs High School in the Commons
2000 NW Ashton Dr, Blue Springs, MO 64015
Please plan on bringing your favorite snack and stay to visit with friends and family...
I will need all the hugs I can get!

8 comments:

  1. Wallie we wish you comfort and peace in the days, weeks, and month ahead. Hold on to the special memories of a special woman. May God grant you grace enough. We look to celebrate with you on the 21st. Blessings,

    Jeff

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  2. I'll pray to give you comfort and peace. You are one amazing husband to have been by her side throughout her journey. She was one amazing lady. She truly touchedmy heart in my journey of education. Thank you, for writing a blog. I sure enjoyed reading all about your life as a husband to miki as well miki 's journey. May you feel of God 's love during this time.

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  3. Wallie ~ I have been reading your blogs during your journey with Miki's cancer and have been touched by your sweetness and dedication. Your determination to make her journey as smoothly and painless as possible does not go unnoticed. I felt like I came to know Miki through your words and expressions of her. Yet, as another journey has started for you both may God comfort you and keep you in all your ways. May He hold you in the palm of His hands and carry you through these difficult days. May you make time for the quiet moments as God whispers while the world is loud. Let the things you were grateful for sustain you for now.
    With a sad heart,
    Cindy King

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    1. lynne sanderson collumsDecember 5, 2013 at 5:35 PM

      What a beautiful testament of compassion and love.. well said Cindy Small King..

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  4. Wallie ~ I will always remember the true unconditional love that you and Miki had for each other. It was so very genuine and gave me peace every time I witnessed it. Miki made a difference in my life and every single life that she touched. I was blessed to know her and will miss her words and her hugs. She will now make a difference in Heaven. Mary Truex

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  5. Your horribly broken heart could not be more beautiful. It shows those of us who were not there to see it, the beauty of your relationship and of Miki. My heart aches for your pain and at the same time is lifted by the stories of such a wonderful partnership of soulmates. You were so good to her through this. That must have been a huge source of strength for her. I pray for peace and healing for you. I can't imagine how acute this must be.

    Bryan Starr

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  6. Wallie~ I was one of Miki's many students. She was my professor at Graceland and the best teacher I have ever had. She was so supportive of me and helped me when I was in a time of need. I am heart broken to hear this news, but she personally changed my life and has inspired me to be the best teacher I can be. I am sorry and I pray for peace and healing for you.

    Ashley Maybee

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  7. Wallie- I'm so sorry for you loss. I was a student of Miki's at GU and one of yours as well. (Science/Art Methods) She was an amazing inspiration as a teacher and person. Another classmate (Margaret Knight) told me Miki had passed and it broke my heart. I went to her blog, read and then found yours to see how you were. Your relationship is/was one of great inspiration. I pray for peace, love and grace for you.

    Thank you for sharing your lives with us.

    God's Blessing,
    Kris Bailey
    GU 2009

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